I am a striver and my fiancée is a creative free spirit. In the five years we have lived together, I have paid off my debts and built a stock portfolio big enough for a deposit on a house in London. She has a credit-card bill and hefty student loan. To be fair, she has quit jobs and moved country twice so I can pursue my career. I want to buy a house in an unfashionable but upcoming area while she prefers to rent somewhere trendier. My primary aim is matrimonial harmony: what should I do?
我是一个努力奋斗的人,我的未婚妻则是一个富有创造力、无拘无束的人。在我们一起生活的五年当中,我偿清了自己的债务,并积累起了一个股票投资组合,其规模足以支付在伦敦购买一栋房子的定金。未婚妻则背负着信用卡账单以及高昂的学生贷款债务。平心而论,她为了我能追寻自己的事业,曾经两次辞职并跨国迁移。我希望在一个并不时髦但前景看好的地段买一栋房子,而她想要在更时尚的地方租房居住。我的首要目标是和谐的婚姻关系:我应当怎么做?