I am a partner in a City law firm and lucky (wise?) to have married a man who gave up his career to stay home with our two young children. He is happy and so are the children. However, I am increasingly irritated that I get home in the evening exhausted to find them all slumped on the sofa watching television, homework often undone and the kids not yet bathed. I usually end up doing it myself. I’m doing a rotten job of managing and motivating my husband. How to do it better?
我是伦敦金融城一家律所的合伙人,我很幸运地(或者说很明智地?)嫁给了一位愿意放弃工作、专门在家照看两个年幼孩子的男人。他和孩子们对此都感到很开心。然而,令我越来越受不了的是,每天晚上当我筋疲力尽回到家的时候,总是发现他们都窝在沙发上看电视,功课总是一点也没做,孩子们也没洗澡。结果总是我自己动手做这些事。我在管理和激励我的丈夫方面做得太糟糕了。怎样才能做得好点?