痛苦

The Gift Of Pain
痛苦是一份礼物


精神分析学家格罗斯:某些时候,我们都会努力压制自己的痛苦情感,但当我们成功地做到麻木不仁的时侯,我们也失去了明白究竟是什么让自己痛苦、以及为什么痛苦的唯一途径。

Matt's father rang me because several weeks earlier his son had pointed an unloaded starter's pistol at a police officer who was trying to arrest him for disorderly conduct. Matt was now on bail for a serious firearms offence, and he was continuing to act recklessly. In violation of his bail, he would stay out drinking with friends, sometimes not coming home for days. He was getting into fights. His parents, both teachers, were beginning to accept that Matt would probably go to priso